My life doesn’t revolve around lolita. It is just one part of who I am and what I’m into. It may be my main hobby and interest, but it isnt my only hobby and interest. I’m a person, with a range of conflicting interests. I like gore, I like rap, I like horror, I like a million things that arent loli, because I don’t have to just be into things that are lolita, and people who judge me for being into things that aren’t I see as pretty narrow minded.
Fair nuff if you do happen to just be into things that are lolita, but don’t expect all lolitas to be and then judge them for it.